Something for everyone

For all those ladies out there... there is nothing you can do to a man worse than ignore him.

If you insult him, sleep with his friends, crush him like a bug... thats all fine and good. It says "you matter enough for me to fuck you over."

On the other hand... if you know a guy is hot for you and you walk right past him. Talk with his friends, make pool shots for them...

But ignore the point of attention...

it hurts. not in a 'wow she hurt me' but in a 'I feel worthless' type of way. Something that tests the metal of a man. That says "fight"? or "flight"?

On the other hand... I'm sure this is the same for men too.

For those kind guys who will always offer a smile and a hello... this is the weapon. What we do is seen as a weakness. If you can afford to ignore someone, it means your clearly better than them (and people only want to date their betters.)

Harsh thoughts... but there is truth there somewhere.